Love & Relational Coaching

Holy Cacao: Your Invitation Back to Love

Cacao is more than just a plant—it is a guide, a healer, and a bridge back to the heart. In the traditions of ancient Mesoamerica, cacao was revered as sacred medicine, a doorway to deeper connection, and a reminder of the love that is our true nature.

The spirit of cacao is the Jaguar—The Huntress into Darkness. Jaguar moves fearlessly into the unknown, seeing through illusion and uncovering what lies hidden. There is nowhere cacao will not go. It reaches into the places we may be afraid to explore alone—our wounds, our fears, our patterns in love and relationships. But cacao does not walk this path for us; it walks with us, reminding us that we are supported, we are not alone, and the journey does not have to be hard.

Through our work at Holy Cacao, we bring cacao into the realm of love and relationship coaching, helping you return to yourself, open your heart, and rediscover harmony—first within, then with others, and finally with the earth itself. This is the path back to love. Cacao is your invitation. Will you accept it?



Does this sound familiar?

  • You feel like you're doing the work, but relationships still feel like a struggle.

  • The people you want don’t want you back, or you find yourself attracting the wrong ones.

  • You question your worth, your sexuality, or whether you’re “too much” or “not enough.”

  • You’ve tried healing, therapy, spiritual practices—but nothing seems to fully unlock the love and connection you desire.

If any of this resonates, you’re not alone.

The Process

Transformation happens in relationship.

When we work with another—someone who mirrors both our light and shadow—we create a space for healing. Together, we:

  • Build a new emotional vocabulary

  • Practice intimacy in a safe, supportive space having a corrective experience

  • Learn to stand in our power and speak our truth

  • Rewire unconscious patterns that block love

  • Create a safe space to reparent the wounded inner child 


Think of our sessions as a flight simulator. You’ll practice in session what you’ll bring into the real world—so you can show up differently in love, sex, and partnership.

“When the wound is relational, the healing is relational” 

My Approach

My work is shaped by lived experience.

I grew up with a hippie mom, earned a Master’s in Social Work, and have spent years immersed in deep partnership, yoga, meditation, Buddhism, therapeutic experiences, plant medicine , 12-step recovery, and the art of deep listening and seeing.

For years, I thought something was wrong with me.

  • The guy I liked never liked me back.

  • I felt like everyone else was moving forward while I was stuck in the slow lane.

  • I was afraid of sex, never had an orgasm from it, and questioned my sexuality.

  • I was told I was “too masculine” and tried to lean into my feminine.

  • I tried every healing modality I could find, hoping for the missing piece.

But there was no magic key—no riddle to solve.

The Invitation

I won’t list my spiritual resume to impress you. I trust that my story will reach the people who need it—those who see themselves in these words and are ready to step into something new.

If you're ready to uncover your blind spots, heal unconscious patterns, and create deeper intimacy in your life, let’s begin.

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Our Work

Real change happens in relationship.

We don’t heal in isolation. We heal through connection, reflection, and practice. Our work together is about uncovering the unconscious patterns that keep you stuck in love, sex, and partnership—so you can show up differently and create the intimacy you desire.

What We’ll Do Together:

🔹 Identify Blind Spots – Recognize the unconscious beliefs and behaviors keeping love at a distance.
🔹 Rewire Patterns – Shift from old survival strategies to new ways of relating.
🔹 Develop Emotional Mastery – Build the skills to express yourself clearly, confidently, and with heart.
🔹 Practice True Intimacy – Learn how to stay present, open, and connected—even in discomfort.
🔹 Step Into Your Power – Embody your most authentic self in love and partnership.

This isn’t about quick fixes or surface-level advice. It’s deep, transformative work—practicing in session so you can integrate it into your real life. Think of it as a flight simulator for intimacy—a space to rewire how you show up in love before taking it into your relationships.